Showing posts with label work. Show all posts
Showing posts with label work. Show all posts

Wednesday, 29 October 2014

No more thumb sucking and Mama finally found some sleep

No, the blog is not dead.

Mama was incredibly busy at work over the last month and losing sleep because of numerous things going in all directions wildly in my brain, made worst by nightly wakes at the weirdest time to make sure the little man was not having the meal of his life feasting on his yummy thumb. For 2 weeks it became the most uncalled for routine

3.00. - Mama looked at the bb monitor and found the little man savoring on his right thumb. Mama pressed on the microphone function and went "No sucking. Remove your thumb", half asleep.
3.05 - Mama watched on and see no reaction by the boy then went "No sucking! Remove your thumb!"
3.06 - Watch on for another minute then go "NO SUCKING!!! THUMB OUT". "NO SUCKING!!!"

And then, the poor boy got awaken (and the Papa too). And so everyone in the house got interrupted sleep.

Thankfully, things got better this week as Papa found a solution to put a stop to the little man's unconscious nightly thumb sucking habit. Not something that tasted awful smeared on his thumb, but in the form of a pouch sewn around the wrist of his pj and... EUREKA! The magic pouch that puts everyone to sound sleep.

This is the little man and Mama, photo bombed by our four-legged buddy.

Monday, 26 May 2014

Typhon Haiyan 6 months After

Translated version in Diakonia's Swedish blog! http://diakoniablogg.se/2014/05/filippinerna/

Travelling into Tacloban city, the shocking aerial view encapsulated the extent of physical devastation post Typhon Haiyan (locally known as Yolanda). As we approached the airport terminal building by foot, Minnie Anne Calub Emergency Programme Manager of the National Council of Churches in the Philippines (NCCP) ecstatically said: “There, finally a roof now!” Tacloban's Daniel Z. Romualdez Airport the main gateway from Manila and Cebu to the Eastern Visayas Region in central Philippines was effectively destroyed by Typhon Haiyan. Six months on, the airport terminal building is fitted with a new roof while the interior of the terminal remains bare.

Fighting through the chaos after receiving my luggage from the staffs who were seen toiling around to get the airport running, we finally got onto a van that drove us into Tacloban city. The lack of suitable housing was evident as rows and rows of tents pitched in close proximity remain the main shelter option for the community. It is impossible for anyone to miss the dilapidated houses and buildings along the road, many apparently beyond repair and abandoned by their previous occupants. Children were seen playing in hazardous conditions amidst rubble. In Barangay 89 one of the hardest-hit coastal districts in Tacloban City where its entire community remains housed in tents and makeshift huts, I was overwhelmed by the desperate frustration as concerns over leaking tents and the lack of information regarding relocation sites from the government were repeatedly voiced by the community. On the day that we arrived, it felt no less than 35 degree Celsius. The sweltering heat and humidity would have turned the tents into boiler rooms. I cannot help but wonder how long more do they have to endure with these living conditions? It was heartening to hear how the community has found glimpses of hope amidst the hardships through ACT Alliance member Christian Aid (CA) activities carried out in the Barangay. With local partner Urban Poor Associates (UPA), CA organises women for urban gardening to improve self-sufficiency while mothers helped monitor feeds to ensure that sufficient nutrients were provided to the children. As a community member stoically put it, these activities distract us away from the pain and sufferings.

The “no-dwelling zone” policy implemented by the government post-disaster which prohibits the construction of structures within 40 meters from the shoreline in areas affected by Typhoon Haiyan has complicated the recovery process as residents of some coastal neighbourhoods who have rebuilt their homes are now technically illegal squatters, possibly facing eviction. Non-governmental organisations are now confronting the government on the legal or scientific basis of this policy and questioning if the policy was to clear coastal areas to pave the way for private developers. After Typhoon Haiyan, what emerged as a poignant issue that need to be urgently addressed in the rebuilding process is ensuring that land tenure and property rights of vulnerable groups are not impacted negatively. It is often the poorest people who are targeted for relocation. These people do not formally own land and have little option but to live close to the coast given their dependency on the proximity to the sea for livelihood.

In Barangay Salvacion and Barangay Fererras, Act Alliance member NCCP showcased the comprehensive design of their shelter project that had benefited 197 households. Located within 50-100 meters from the original dwellings, the beneficiaries worry less about the effect on livelihood as the relocation gave them access to their fisher boats. Noticeably, NCCP had shifted from building permanent shelters to progressive shelters to tackle with the tricky land tenure issues when constructing permanent housing. NCCP has also tapped into its local networks and work closely with the Mayor office to secure tenure for the relocated families. However, it will take at least another 3 months for the shelters to be completed. Claudia B. Gacod one of the beneficiaries of the shelter project expressed that the most pressing need for her family is to leave the tent immediately, warning: "What will happen to us if there is another storm?" It is also in Barangay Salvacion where three Act Alliance members (CA, NCCP and Norwegian Church Aid (NCA)) converged and displayed coordination and illustrated how the work of each member has complemented one another. When interviewed, Cherry G. Legue the Advisor for Salvacion Women Association happily shared that women in the Barangay who always have been homemakers can now get income from planting seedlings in the newly constructed nursery, a community initiative financed by NCCP. “Do you feel more empowered?” I asked. Cherry quickly answered “We don’t think about that now. We are just happy that we can save money to finance our children’s education”.

Spending hours on car rides travelling between Leyte and Eastern Samar, a daunting sight is the fields of toppled and uprooted coconut trees, or what is left of their skinny trunks less the bushy tops. It has been estimated that in Eastern Visayas alone, some 33 million coconut trees were either damaged or destroyed. Around 80% of the people of Eastern Samar rely on the coconut industry and now it is wiped out. In Barangay Liwayway, CA’s local partner Alyansa Tigil Mina (ATM) has organised the community to work on environmental security and livelihoods, a result of which a communal farm which uses organic fertiliser was set up. The activities have enabled the community to begin the process of intercropping, crop-diversification and livelihood/poultry raising activities. This will help to secure livelihoods while the wait for the newly planted coconut trees to become productive continues.

After visiting a number of the worst-hit areas in a span of a week, Filipino’s remarkable resilience is striking. Andrew Martin of UNOCHA remarked that the country has surmounted challenges and the speed of recovery is almost unprecedented given the scale of destruction. One cannot help but wonder if this is a good sign as we are reminded in our meetings that despite shelter and livelihood needs of affected population remain unmet, international support has already begin to wean as more acute humanitarian situations have arisen in other parts of the world. Visible recovery has taken place, but who can arrive at the speed of recuperation for the human psyche? I vividly recall the words of the lady who spoke in tears when asked about the community’s disaster preparedness in the face of future disasters “My heart will not take it anymore. If it hits again, take me away”.
 

Sunday, 1 December 2013

Everything in the last month

Alot has happened over the past weeks and by alot, I mean ALOT.

We went on our first family trip to Tokyo, a tiring but to be remembered trip, at least by the parents (and who cares if the boy most probably won't remember a single thing. It is the experience that matters!). It is a lot of bonding time for the three of us and we haven't spent that much time together as a nuclear family since he was 2 months old, so this meant alot to us.

And coming back home in mid-November to a disasater struck Philippines meant work immediately, which was followed by meetings, preparation of the workshop, and then spending a week darting around during the actual workshop itself. And when Mama finally has the time to catch my breath, it is where I am now -- Dhaka, away from the boys, getting stuck in the hotel due to ongoing riots and nursing a flu due to the bad air!

2 weeks to the arrival of our first guest from North America, 1 month to the arrival of Gong gong and Po po , 2 months to CNY and 3 months to a new baby!

And now you know why people say "time flies"!!!

Thursday, 30 May 2013

Mama away from home

First time away from little man, he seems to be doing fine but not Mama. Mama slept past midnight for the first time in months and got up at 6, as usual.

Papa joked about Mama enjoying the bed all by herself, without fear of night awakenings. Mama is trying to enjoy my 2 nights in Bangkok but have made 2 calls back home already (and it is only 8 a.m.!)

Travelling for work is not going to be easy. Ever.

Saturday, 6 April 2013

SAHM no more

So Mama is settling down back in the office, and life is back at full throttle. Back to work on Thursday for the first day and surprisingly felt like I have not been away for 7 months.

Back at home, little man chose to commemorate the day by starting to crawl for the first time. Papa who witnessed his new skill was impressed by his son's advancement. Yesterday eveining, Mini started crawling around in the living room, exploring the corners and grabbing everything he saw and stuffing them into his mouth. He also attempted to chew a corner of the wall.

This is getting fun.

Sunday, 20 January 2013

When the man takes charge

Today is the first day Papa is trying his hands in putting Mini to sleep all by himself, meaning bathing then feeding and singing the Mini lullabies before putting him down into his cot and sneaking out of his room.

And Papa did it!

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Thursday, 30 August 2012

Start of hiatus from work

Today marks Day 1 of "vacation", unofficial start of my 6-month maternity leave which is supposed to begin on the 17th of September, but taking into account that I have 10 days of unused vacation leave for the year, my leave of absence from work will be starting today (sooner than planned!). Next time I'll be returning to work will be mid March. This might not be a point for celebration at all since I am really not sure if I have enough sanity to be a full time stay at home mum for 6 months, or perhaps my motherly instinct will kick in and I will be so madly in love with motherhood that I will eventually not want to return to work.

Whatever that comes, I hope everyone in the family will be enjoying the change.

Off for my last pedi and mani before arrival of the little man!

Tuesday, 26 June 2012

Last trip before domestic mayhem

Spent a good 2 weeks back in Singapore and was glad to have done all I intended to: Spending lots of time with my family, meeting up with people precious to me and stocking up on Utt's essentials. Glad that I have accomplished them all.

Crawling out of bed in the mornings and spending time groceries shopping with my mum in the neighbourhood wet market is something I've tried to do every time I get back home. It's an interesting sight to watch and it offers a different experience from the hustle and bustle in the city. Having morning breakfast in the local coffeeshop with my folks and doing the so mundane yet necessary things with them was simply my way of saying the good old daughter is back. And then also going around town with them, exploring and re-exploring places that has warped over time was I hope quality time well-spent together.

As I always do, I appreciate the efforts of  family and friends for organising get-togethers, putting off plans, rearranging schedules to catch up. It has become so enjoyable just to sit back and chat and it certainly shows how much we have grown (aged/ matured, whatever).

Utt will learn about all these soon enough.

Friday, 15 June 2012

Goodbye Phnom Penh

The work trip to Phnom Penh had been incredible even with the scorching heat and impolite stall vendors at the Russian market. One visit to the partner's left an impression hard to erase: hearing from the horses' mouth about the fight put up by the urban poor in the now famous and backed by Washington "Free the 15" campaign. Land grabbing is such a huge issue in Cambodia and I believe that the corporates involved should be shamed in their home countries. It's unbelievable what some put others through in their acquisition of power and wealth.

Monday, 11 June 2012

Going solo and baby thoughts

Getting on the plane in 3 hours time, probably the last time that I would be heading home alone (and strictly speaking I am hardly alone now with Utt in my pouch). With P joining me in Singapore next week, this is going to be quite a special trip for us - we will be returning the next time with Utt in our arms and as parents of a newborn.

And although I have endless complains about the political situation in Singapore, the lack of freedom of speech and expression and the crazily one-sided mainstream media reporting which is increasingly getting on my nerves, I love my country not a bit less than the day I left. I love my family and I love my friends. Not matter how long I have spent away from Singapore, it doesn't dilute my love for the people dear to my heart. And so, I would like Utt to be blessed with the same love these people show me, and I would love Utt to be able to share and experience what Mama had gone through as a toddler, teenage and young adult. My greatest hope for Utt is for him to grow up a Thai-Singaporean that is conscious about his roots and appreciate the multiculturalism in the Singaporean society. I would make sure that Utt has the privilege to experience the life of a Thai, and the life of a Singaporean and choose for himself in future what he sees best for himself.

Dear Utt,

As you are growing at a rapid speed in the last month, Mama starts to imagine life with you and how things might be different for me and Papa. Mama love Papa alot and it is beyond words can describe how much I have appreciated him in my life and how much we have adjusted and changed over the years to accomodate each other. Mama can't help but feel curious how Papa and I will adjust our largely self-centered style of living to one that is going to be probably revolving around you. Mama does not believe in losing the intimacy as couple and being someone who has lost track of her own wants and needs as a new life arrives in her life, and Mama will try her best to cope and find a balance in the midst of playing the multiple roles of being a nurturing mum, an understanding wife and an individual who continues to blossom.

Love,
Mama

Friday, 18 May 2012

I love my job!

Developed the habit of striking days off the calendar since my awfully unbearable job in Singapore. Sign that things are getting much better? Habit of striking off calendar stopped since April.

Sunday, 6 May 2012

Home is where the heart is

Spent a short 30 hours back at home before flying off to BKK. Short but enough to get my spirits up after a week away. Especially when the living condition in India was bad, getting back to some normalcy regulates the soul. I am glad that after being away from home for a week in India, I managed to get home before leaving again. The trip to India is certainly going to stay memorable and has a lifelong ink. The trip to Agra, Delhi itself, the 5-day course and of course the horrible hotel. Going home to familiarity makes me appreciate the presence of P and buddy in my life more than ever.

And now here I am in the city of angels, with a nice view of BKK from a humongous room but feeling a bit lonely. Looking forward to getting home this Saturday and spending some quality time with P and buddy.


Friday, 4 May 2012

Last night in Delhi

Is very happy that tonight is the last night and I am going home tomorrow!!!

Can't wait to meet Mini Us on Sunday!

Tuesday, 1 May 2012

Day 2 of a 9-7 workshop

Plenty of information. Plenty of intriguing conversations. Plenty of curry.

3 more nights and missing my bed already.

20 weeks and 4 days pregnant and still fitting into my jeans but not for too long!


Tuesday, 3 April 2012

Taj Mahal!

Is 90% going to Taj Mahal with baby in my body carrier!

Wednesday, 29 February 2012

Off to the beach

Off to Hua Hin for 3 days 2 nights. I hope I will survive the flight and 4 hour bus ride. I hope I get time off to stroll along the beach and eat some awesome seafood. I hope P is going to be there with me.

Argh. Argh. Argh.

Monday, 20 February 2012

Little surprise on Monday

Came to the office with some biscuits on the desk. Boss knew I was having bad morning sickness and thought munching on some low calories biscuit will help.

This is why it never crossed my mind to be a stay at home mum.

Dear Mini Us,

Mama is trying to give the best to you. Mama just hope she don't binge and balloon beyond remedy in the process.

Yours truly,
Mama

Tuesday, 14 February 2012

Remnants from Burma

Rakhine noodles

Our partner's project in eco-farm (note mud house in background)

At the quay, with river leading to the delta then the Andaman

Bits of chinese new year

The famous Shewdagon temple

Betel nuts seller

The Shan cuisine what probably caused the trouble I had with my tummy

Partner's activity: Holistic education workshop with the nuns and monks

U Bein Bridge – a 1.2 km wooden footbridge (longest teak bridge in the world)

Friday, 3 February 2012

Bye Yangon

Got back to Yangon at 10.30pm after a 2 hour flight delay in Mandalay and checked in to a new place. Bell boy pointed out of the window enthusiastically in the direction of the well known pagoda and repeated "Shewdagon" like 3 times. I nodded and said "Yup, been there".

This morning as I lazed on the bed waiting for time to be consumed till my 4.40pm flight, I drew the curtains opened and was greeted by morning Yangon. It looked more welcoming than the night, probably due to my contentment from the good night sleep.

For a country so rich in history and filled with people so genuine and passionate, I hope the best for you Burma.

Good bye Burma




Next on the to do list: Catch "The Lady" in the theaters with P. It has been 20 days. I miss him and our buddy.




Baby, I am coming home.

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Last night Yangon

I am finally going home.

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